La Historia De Una Tramp s

La Historia De Una Tramp s Our memory is a tendency to collect in a way that the events   Our dignity is guaranteed. And more often tell our story,   we are more convinced of their truth.I memory of a carved wooden doll, whom I loved as a beloved son.   Families of Canada sent me a "right? Doll, a real treasure in   Germany in the early fifties. He had his hair combed to the speaker   Could you tell? Mamma? wore a dress and a ball-dress for daily life --   Instead. However, despite these advantages, it could not compete   my wooden doll, whose body was practical and robust, and whose   fluctuated in the limbs of the nails, which have joined the trunk. And much more   importantly, I loved her.One day, this beautiful doll disappeared and recalled the memory   only thirty years later, during my psychoanalysis. Psychoanalysis and   therapies in general tend to plow into the ground through its shadow   hand, in search of souvenirs that can be held responsible for   unfulfilled dreams and desires, with the failure of plans and projects   A? s own deficiencies and life here is hardships.And. Memory, the quintessence of the proof of how little my   my mother, loved, appreciated and rewarded, and my needs. One   Days, had bued the doll. There might be something better expressed   compared to me that this act of negligence? And yes! During the   psychoanalysis, I have progressed to the point of this as an oversight   It is not intended as malice. This is a step in the direction of   sorry, but no one reconciliation.One days when I was preparing to move into the community of Findho   North-east of Scotland, my mother brought a great package   Attic storage, and says:? I have kept your toys for you. I thought that   It would be nice to have you as a souvenir. Oh, what pain   shame as I shook rummage through the cabinet. Its flat   To lay the wooden dolls. Nothing remains of the splendor that had   invested in early childhood days, but had suffered through this   unharmed.The crash shattered the long history of the daughter refused, and with it came   the collapse of the paper carefully constructed house of my memories, my history. It   Open your eyes to what really happened. However, some had   more years of working hard and deep before I could recognize that   anxieties and fears of my childhood has little to do with my family,   My mother has loved me and appreciated what I could have wished   And you and I are just as human as we are all mothers and   daughters, with our strengths and weaknesses, personal challenges,   Bankruptcy and successes.This incident remained in my mind as a waing, while I listened to other   people tell their stories during the therapeutic sessions. I already know   brain deceives us with the selection and assembly of individuals,   events in a way that supports our faith. And more   We often tell our story to others, more convinced of his   Veracity. Ho trovato che lo stesso grado che potrebbe penetrare il   the construction of their own history and my release, it could support other   renounce his story.This is not as simple as it seems. There are often attributed mainly   Our perception of reality. This gives us the identity, our apologies   Weaknesses and justify our laziness. Without a doubt, the other   which are responsible for our suffering! Why then must strain   We commit ourselves to change our lives? To give up our history means taking responsibility for our lives, for all that   happened to us, and everything we have done elsewhere. To do this,   is often necessary to broaden our perspective of the level of   personality to the soul, which is the most plan to guide our   fate.To view events from a new perspective, it must abandon its history. The first   step is to determine how the events from happening again   Again. This requires some 'practice, especially when your life? S Guide   principle is that others are responsible for their suffering.The second step is to find out how the situations that occur   Happen again and again. People tend to evade the answer to   this problem by making general statements. The devil is in the details,   above all the feelings that are linked to the details. Feelings are   the glue that holds together the unpleasant and painful memories. We   To jump usually statements.The third step is to retu to situations that are at the root of   ? Wrongs. In my meetings with clients, ask your Higher Self to join me. The   Higher education is a bridge between the soul and mind and is the expression of   the true core self or person. It is closer to the truth that our ego,   This is more important to save face, to know the truth.I ask the Superior to bring the situation where we can find   The key to the actual experience. This key opens the door to what is   under the outward symptoms, diseases or problems of living   Strategies. This episode could be a family of repetitive   childhood, which now appears in a new light, or a trauma   experience that was removed from the consciousness, or classified as   unimportant.One example is the story of a young man who felt that the mother   had limited their spontaneity and free expression lively to the point   There was a feeling of being crushed and physical paralysis. In a   inteal image, this is a big stone round   has more than one shot and his body buried tiger. Closing,   changed the stone in topsoil, the seed of a new leader, the germ of a   Large tree, which is now ready to grow. All the oppressive and   constraint forces, which symbolically represents the stone, were   same time, the mother-land for the development of their potential.You can not recognize this part of history, when the point of view   Perspective of the victim. Only if you put the story in a broader context, if   that his change of perspective, one can appreciate the gift that is hidden in it.   To recognize and appreciate the positive intention, you can   freeing himself from the tangles of past.In where the experiences of cut so deep and so painful that   are suppressed from consciousness, it will take longer to reach the   Source. You probably need some 'guidance, or create your own   Training and experience. Our inner wisdom opens the door to   Only when we are one hundred percent ready to unconscious see   Truth. Part of the work is precisely what our conscience resistance   Awareness. The resistance is another word for fear. Fear has many faces:   Fear of the dark, fear of liability or responsibility.   Afraid to change our lives, and to abandon the attachments. And we   afraid that we do not know what our families are story.All these fears are legitimate as they carried a grain of truth. Is   important to recognize and appreciate, without being trapped   by them or surrender of our power for them. If we have the courage to look at them,   Lose their power and terror. Upon closer inspection, we find that   under the threat fantasies are events that, in light   Today, I am human. Free knowledge and free us.A child interprets events according to the mental capacities that are   available at the time of the traumatic experiences that occur. As adults, we have   are more able to accept human limitations. To the extent that we   develop an understanding and sympathy for our weaknesses, we can   also accept the fact that our parents or other important people in our   The children were not perfect. At this point we would like to see   greater truth and say goodbye to our history. To reach this point   freedom for the change in delay, and again the courage to take   The responsibility for our life.Dr. Ulla Sebastian is a renowned author, trainer and psychotherapist.   Their work covers a wide range of personal and professional   and growth is the result of forty years of research, with thousands of job   people around the world and experience free-living growth   And the transformation. The article is an excerpt from the Ebook: Beyond   Visit suffering on its website   Free courses, distance courses, books,   Ebooks and articles.