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Three little words' major ? I forgive you. These three words can be the most liberating word. Provide immediate immediate release and immediate acceptance and even love compassion.These words spoken aloud. A declaration may be in silence? a thought, almost a prayer. When you forgive someone for a mistake, not only the other person without a sense of guilt, responsibility, and perhaps the pain? More importantly, we are free ourselves.Of course, to forgive someone means that they have decided that an injustice to us, we hurt or interfere with our wishes. It also means that to be wrong and judged them responsible for certain crimes. This in itself can not be just or right? because who are we to judge another? Who are we to impose guilt and remorse? Who are we to prevent the release of another, taking into account her? And 'the phrase that inhibits. E 'stifles.So the ruling as not to judge others? Each of us has certain expectations? many of them are embedded in social norms. The expectations of many of them, limit some freedoms and actions. How can we not judge? Maybe we can allow.Allowing simply an error by another, then there is no need for forgiveness is a place that everyone can get a. Allow an occasional misspoken word, allowing a careless act, which allows an unusually bad time. If we can keep the mind the basic principle of goodness and light and love for the person before us, then perhaps it could allow an error or a mistake in the process, words or actions. Allow helps release all the members of the interaction - the agent and the receiver.Perhaps too, allowing the most important thing we can do is with ourselves. Leave our growth through a non-optimal. Enable our growth in relation to the attempt, tripping and debates around the best words, the best measures. Leave some 'pampering from time to time. Leaving the rest, make some mistakes here and there and not push so pardon hard.Allowing is automatically advance.Allowing freedom. Failed to anger, frustration and guilt. What softens expectations. That the heads of bitteess that grows.Is as soon as possible to enter every day, every interaction with an open mind and allow? We can allow the fault of another before? We can allow our own? Leaving the door to freedom and that action.Now? S Powerful! Sue Urda is the Co-Founder of Powerful You! Women? S and a network twice Inc. 500 Fastest-Growing Private Companies honored. Its vision is to contribute to a global consciousness of women helping women succeed in business and in life. Sue? S mission is to create spaces for women to grow their business, build relationships and foster empowerment, gratitude and self-development. 973-248-1262.