Recidivism

Recidivism Direct Answers - Column for the week of 8 July 2002I have 26 years in stock, in the business on and off when I was 14. I have the tendency to concentrate in a very bad abusive men relationships.The usually with drug problems, and usually by the end, I support. I have many friends, because it seems that people only with me, because it attempts to me.I 'I worked regular jobs, in some schools, and also my real estate license. I was not happy "place" and I am not happy, but can not afford to stop or I will be monitoring everything to lose. Happiness does not take long for me. I'm looking for something in life, for me, and the only thing to do, is my big pile bills.Recently do with a man who is better me than anyone has in a long period of time. For the first time, the feeling is mutual. He makes me smile, and I do not think I was ever abused. We want to see themselves and have kids.The problem is in trial and was made soon about two years. This is a long waiting time, and I'm tired of my life so far. We have the opportunity, it is not the same, but then I have to follow to support us.Either goes to jail and I, alone or together, and I support. And what if you fall ill, so he depends on me? Where are we going? I want the house with the white wall slats and children, but how can I as an escort with me and him on the way the big house? Maureen Maureen, Thoreau said: "What stands before us and what lies behind us the small things compared to what lies within us. And if we are, what is in the world, miracles happen. "If you are interested in the control of cash, it's great saving and good living. But you are in debt with the money to buy some happiness. You are like the same treatment as the currency devalued and, if you do not deserve a good friend man.Your promises that things can never enter, and this is just another form of abuse. If you feel that you understand the value of a person, you feel like a man of value, a man who truly cares for you and, of course, is supporting.Within is a dream, and how to achieve that dream is the cycle. You must take the first steps to change the measures in the pay seems so far away you are afraid than ever. Good things. If you do not have any them.Pay bills so you're not trapped by debt. Then think of living the life, to get the right man Think about what you've always wanted to be, and what will it take to get there. Your dream is a value. With patience and courage, you can happen.Wayne and Tamara PerspectiveA a couple of weeks ago I had a couple of young women, friends of mine, and we talk about boys and the special qualities that should have. A girl said a man not too hot, but was thinking it was cute or adorable.Another girl said she notices the little things more. She said that her boyfriend calls every night just to say good night. I wonder what "little things" would be 16-20 girls notice.Aaron Aaron, for a girl, a call can be "sweet." On the other hand, one could control. Since you can not read your mind, the surest way to yourself.Tamara The Author Authors and columnists Wayne and Tamara Mitchell can be reached by writing to: Direct Answers, PO Box 964, Springfield, MO 65801 or e-mail: @ DirectAnswers WayneAndTamara. com.